In our journey through life, the principle of mentalism from the first Hermetic principle teaches us that our thoughts shape our reality. This concept invites us to reflect on our values, both explicitly and implicitly. Understanding our values can be transformative, guiding us to live authentically and harmoniously.
Reflecting on Childhood for Value Insights
Another method to uncover your values is to reflect on your childhood and identify what you felt was missing. Asking yourself, "What three things did I think were missing from my childhood?" can reveal significant insights. These missing elements can highlight what you long for and what you value.
Exploring Your Values (Present Day)
One effective method is to examine your financial habits—your bank account can reveal a lot about what you prioritize. Another approach is to connect emotional reactions to underlying values. Anger, sadness, or fear often indicate a conflict of values.
The Case of Contrasting Values
If love is a core value, acting in ways that contradict this can create internal conflict. Similarly, power is another significant value. It's essential to distinguish between power and force. Power, in the sense of empowerment, can be about influencing and inspiring others, not exerting control over them.
Practical Application of Values
Once your values are identified, applying them becomes an enriching experience. When faced with unpleasant emotions like anger, reflecting on your values can provide guidance. You can reinterpret situations through the lens of love, power, and beauty—asserting boundaries, reclaiming your power, and maintaining inner peace.
Living by your values means staying present and responsive to each moment. By consistently aligning my actions with my values like love, power, and beauty, I cultivate a life of authenticity and fulfillment.
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